Me and the loverboy were watching Thor this weekend – after deciding to do a Marvel binge which has us watching all the movies in (timeline) order. Which is awesome. Cause I love Marvel. Not just for the actionpacked (and sixpacked) storylines, but also because they manage to slip in some braincracking gems and morals every now and again that get my ticker ticking and grey matter spinning.
This time it was the end scene that got me going.
Spoiler Alert!
‘She searches for you’ says Heimdal. Meaning that Jane, after Thor leaving, now has her life revolving about finding a way back to him. Which, obviously, is a lovely endeavor and excruciatingly romantic (I hate people who are so effortlessly romantic, as I am not). But the thing is, she now knows what she is looking for, and that it is out there to be found.
And that’s when it hit me, why I appreciated her ambitions BEFORE meeting Thor. Because Jane, as a scientist, spent her entire career searching for something she didn’t even know was there. She researched something that was only a theory, a thought, maybe even a wish. She chased an idea in hopes of finding something real. In her quest for knowledge about Einstein Rosen bridges (wormholes) she WANTS to find evidence of the great beyond, to prove that we’re not alone, without ever knowing that that proof is there to be found. Damn girl!
Which, to me, is something extremely powerful. Because to pour yourself into something that is SO unsure, SO intangible and SO ‘unreal’ is true commitment to something. It’s so much scarier than the life we currently oftentimes get to live. Because, agree or not, we do live in a world where a lot of the things that can be discovered….have already been discovered. A lot of theories have been debunked, proven or elaborated and a lot of mystery has neem demysticised…demystified…whatever (how the hell do you say that? Is there even a word?). And that, I guess, makes us a bit scared of such things.
At least, that’s how I feel. Might just be me though.
I mean, take for instance the saying ‘it’s better to have loved and lost, than not to have loved at all’.
Which is true, for all intents and purposes, if you ask me. And underlines that same line of thought. It is ever so much easier to look for something that you KNOW is there, than to attempt to find something you’re not sure exists. I know the saying is meant to soothe people who have lost love in saying that they at least had it for some time instead of not at all, but to me it always brought me comfort that IF lost, I’d at least know it’s real, and thus can be found (again).
It helped me through my heartbreak, eventually. Because after digging through a mountain of fear of having lost my one chance at what I considered to be true love – this sentiment instead gave me the hopes of finding it again (and, all gushy and all, I think I have, once more). But it did push me over that final hump of ‘starting to search again’. I knew it was there, all that remained was to go get it.
But all around me I see people, who might be at different points in their life, struggle with similar concepts. And different concepts. And I do too. Because there’s moments in life when we DO find ourselves in a spot where we have to commit ourselves to something new. Something we don’t know. Moments where we have to aspire something we might not clearly see yet. Where we have to start on something that we don’t know might yield the wanted (or any) results. Venturing into the unknown.
Whether it’s striving for a new careerstep that might or might not be in our cards, or for a dream that might never manifest. Whether we’re aiming for goals that might or might not be realistic or learning things that might not turn out to be relevant – we often find ourselves embarking of journeys with unsure endings. And I feel like everyone taking THOSE kinds of steps deserves some sort of medal.
Because what Thor made me realize is that it is ever so much easier to look for what you know is there – than to search for something without knowing it can be found.
And while the one might be hyperromantic, the other is truly impressive. In my eyes, anyway.
So thanks to Marvel I suddenly feel a lot more willing to explore uncharted territories, instead of just ambitiously striving for the tops of ladders I can already see. Because when we look further than what we know, we find the things we never knew were there. And that…is a powerful thing.
I guess I ended up falling for the cliché ‘life starts at the end of your comfort zone’, after all. Damn you Marvel!
Yes, it is. That’s a truly brave thing to do.
“Because to pour yourself into something that is SO unsure, SO intangible and SO ‘unreal’ is true commitment to something.”
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Why did I waste my time all those years ago, reading Little Lulu, Scrooge Mc Duck and Archie comics instead of exploring Marvel.
THIS was one of your best!
Thanks!!!!
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Haha – Scrooge McDuck DID have all kinds of wisdom too!
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i know Thor since I was 11. Now I’m 61 and Thor and all the other Marvel are still with their readers and in movies. That’s just great.
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They’re more alive than ever, I’d say! It’s awesome!
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“it’s better to have loved and lost, than not to have loved at all’.
Hehe You Are the Only ‘Z’ FRiEnD i Know Online Zoe so
‘Z’ Always Leads to Your Blog When i Decide to Use 10
Fingers off A Smart Phone Yet i Digress Yet Not
in Synchronicity on Topic as my Finger (Left Pinkie)
Slipped And Hit the
‘A’ Key Taking
Me Once
Again to Dear
FRiEnD/Poet Astha’s
Blog Where Her Last Blog
Post Has the Ending Line
‘To Be Continued’
As She Started Off Valentine’s
Day All Alone And Kinda Jealous
Of Other Couple’s With Love as She
Said She Never Truly Opened Her Heart Before
And Almost Like A Miracle She Started writing About
A Favorite Person She Met And How She Was Rising
In Love Love With Her Most Special Ally
iN OPeN HeART Ways i Checked
Up on Her 12 Days after
She Wrote the Poem
to Make Sure
She Was Okay
Sadly After that Another
(3 Days Later Morning Breaking)
Person Then Who Read the Blog
Post Notified me that ‘Dear Astha’
Was No More Passing away in Her
Twenties From Covid-19 on April 30th
Just Not What You Expected to Hear About
A Sweetest Young Woman Giving Unconditional
Love to Every one She Met And Greeted in Life
An Indian Professor Engineer Pursuing Her PHD With
Her 8th Book of Poetry in Work to Be Published too..
Yet True All her Life she Never Opened Her HeART Fully
To Feel the Love of Another And Just The Distance of Valentine’s
Day Until that Ending April Day She Found Love to Be Continued…
i’ll Never
Ever
Forget that
Young Woman
And Probably Relate
This Story in my Travels
of Poetry off and on As Waves
Come and Go Until my Dying Day too
Or if i run out of Words Which Might
Happen if Hell Freezes over again..;)
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That is such a sad tale…and I can understand the impact…that’s horrible. Fuck the big C.
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SMiles Dear Zoe All i’ve
Ever Lost in Life
Teaches me
To Love more
Yet i Am
Kinda A
Cup Over
FLoWinG
Dude Inherited
That From my
Mother Most it Seems
She’s Dead too Yet
Not Really As
Her
Love
Still Breathes
Through my Words
Yep Lots of People
Probably
See it
As Too
Sticky And
Sweet to Be
Real too Never
The Less When The
Neighborhood Kids
Got Sad They Came
To Pour it
Out on
Mama
Helen
Wishing
She Was Their
Mama Yes The
Tradition Continues…
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Having been made redundant after 26years in a steady job and moving in a whole new direction, I have found it suprisingly satisfying. A leap of faith.
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That does sound like a moment of freedom , even when caused by something so sucky. Hope the leap takes you somewhere awesome!
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It is amazing how we find inspiration in many places just when we need it 🙂
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Our brains are magical like that!
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Wow few ideas are more horrifying to me than movie or TV binges, lol. It’s like having fun by putting yourself into a solitary confinement prison, and requesting the guards come and beat you up once per hour.
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Whaha – that is a tad overdramatic ain’t it 🙈 To each their own I guess 🤪
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😹😹. It’s actually not but indeed!
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Interesting thoughts from a Marvel movie… And although my first thought was: that is not one of my strong points, striving for the unknown, on second thought, I think I often believe in idealistic possibilities others do not see… Hmmm… Food for more thought…🤔
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Grey area! They exist 🙈
You can be into both 🤪
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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Quite the epiphany. I too did the timeline rerun when we were still locked down🍁
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There ARE some definite perks to lockdowns, I have to admit. I butchered my to-be-watched list 💥💪
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Welcome to the hatchet club. I’m definitely vying for president. 😁😎
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Wonderful, thought inspiring post today 🙂
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Thank you thank you, glad you enjoyed!
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We’ve done some binge watching during lockdown, but I haven’t seen this one, I’ve added it to the list, C
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Good move! It’s worth it 😀
If you’re into the Marvel Universe, that is 😉
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Two things …
it’s worse when you think you’d found Love, and in the End it was not love at all’. I loved, I certainly did. With all my heart. It was the wrong person. My fault I fear …
And all of this led me to a series of events that now brings me to the point that I look into the unknown in many ways: job, house, relationship.
I’m not afraid of crossroads like these. In a way I think I Like them: the sense of losing control and at the same time the freedom to make any choice going forward.
Maybe at such moments in life, you experience what living is about to the max. Let the show begin …
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